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Compassion
For a
number of years, I had the privilege of serving on the board of trustees of
Catholic Health Partners (CHP) a large system of hospitals located in the
Midwest. One of CHP's core values is compassion. They state it this way:
"Compassion: Our commitment to serve with mercy and tenderness." Over
the years of my association with them, I have asked myself the question
"What is compassion?" I hope to answer this question in this post.
"In
the scriptures, compassion means literally 'to suffer with.' It also means to
show sympathy, pity, and mercy for another" (The Guide to the Scriptures,
Compassion). The godly attribute of compassion is more than just a deep emotion
as it always leads to action. CHP's concept of compassion as articulated in
their core values embraces this active component of compassion by coupling
tenderness and mercy with service. Service becomes compassion in action.
The
Savior taught that we should compassionately welcome home the wayward (Luke
15:20) and give assistance to the suffering stranger (Luke 10:33). But He more
than taught--He acted. With compassion, Christ was moved to extend His hand to
the needy (Mark 1:41), teach the gospel (Mark 6:34), forgive (Matthew
18:27-33), heal the sick (Matthew 9:35 and 14:14) ,and raise the dead (Luke
7:13). In every case, he not only showed sympathy, pity, tenderness, and mercy
but He did something to lift a burden.
An
instance from the account of Christ's visit to those gathered at the temple in
Bountiful sometime after His resurrection illustrates His compassion. After He
had taught His gospel to the people, it was time for Him to return to His
Father until the next day. As He looked upon those He had taught, He saw them
pleading with their tear-filled eyes for Him to stay a little longer. He
"said unto them: Behold, my bowels are filled with compassion towards you.
Have ye any that are sick among you? Bring them hither. Have ye any that are
lame, or blind, or halt, or maimed, or leprous, or that are withered, or that
are deaf, or that are afflicted in any manner? Bring them hither and I will
heal them, for I have compassion upon you; my bowels are filled with
mercy" (3 Nephi 17:6-7, emphasis added). He acted; he served.
Christ's
ultimate act of compassion was His Atoning sacrifice for us. Without His
sacrifice we were doomed. But He gave of Himself in every way imaginable so
that we could have hope. He gave us hope in a resurrection and redemption.
Isaiah prophetically saw His life, ministry, and mission and poetically wrote:
Surely
he hath borne our griefs, and carried our sorrows: yet we did esteem him
stricken, smitten of God, and afflicted.
But he was wounded for our transgressions, he was bruised for our
iniquities: the chastisement of our peace was upon him; and with his stripes we
are healed. All we like sheep have gone astray; we have turned every one to his
own way; and the Lord hath laid on him the iniquity of us all. He was
oppressed, and he was afflicted, yet he opened not his mouth: he is brought as
a lamb to the slaughter, and as a sheep before her shearers is dumb, so he
openeth not his mouth. He was taken from prison and from judgment: and who
shall declare his generation? for he was cut off out of the land of the living:
for the transgression of my people was he stricken. And he made his grave with
the wicked, and with the rich in his death; because he had done no violence,
neither was any deceit in his mouth.
(Isaiah 53:4-9)
Of His
Atonement, Alma said,
And he shall go forth, suffering pains and
afflictions and temptations of every kind; and this that the word might be
fulfilled which saith he will ctake upon him the pains and the sicknesses of
his people. And he will take upon him death, that he may loose the bands of
death which bind his people; and he will take upon him their infirmities, that
his bowels may be filled with mercy, according to the flesh, that he may know
according to the flesh how to succor his people according to their infirmities.
Now the Spirit knoweth all things; nevertheless the Son of God suffereth
according to the flesh that he might take upon him the sins of his people, that
he might blot out their transgressions according to the power of his
deliverance; and now behold, this is the testimony which is in me. (Alma
7:11-13)
With
mercy and love, He compassionately give His life so that we might live
eternally. He gave us hope.
“Few
things are more needed in this tense and confused world than Christian
conviction, Christian compassion, and Christian understanding.” (Jeffery R.
Holland, “Standing Together for the Cause of Christ,” Ensign, August 2012).
Dieter F. Uchtdorf said,
I
think of our Lord and Exemplar, Jesus Christ, and His short life among the
people of Galilee and Jerusalem. I have tried to imagine Him bustling between
meetings or multitasking to get a list of urgent things accomplished. I can’t
see it. Instead I see the compassionate and caring Son of God purposefully
living each day. When He interacted with those around Him, they felt important
and loved. He knew the infinite value of the people He met. He blessed them,
ministered to them. He lifted them up, healed them. He gave them the precious
gift of His time." (Dieter F. Uchtdorf, "Of Regrets and
Resolutions," Ensign, November 2012)
The
charge then becomes for those striving to follow in Christ's footsteps to be
moved with compassion as He was moved. “Let our hearts and hands be stretched
out in compassion toward others, for everyone is walking his or her own
difficult path. As disciples of Jesus Christ, our Master, we are called to
support and heal rather than condemn.” (Dieter F. Uchtdorf, “Love and
Patience,” Ensign, May 2010).
Monday, March 11, 2013
Tolerance and Civility
Tolerance for those with beliefs different from our
own and the ability to civilly discuss our differences appear to be vanishing
from our public discourse. The lack of tolerance and civility is particularly
prevalent on talk radio, in the political arena, and in
the social media. Facebook and blogs have too often become vehicles to
participate in the spread of falsehoods, innuendo, unfair judgments, and
outright vicious attacks. Clever statements are posted and re-posted without
checking to see if any of them are factual. This appears to be particularly
true with political commentary. It’s easier to label, name call, and shout than
to seek understanding and find solutions to real problem. The sinister idea
that the end justifies the means seems acceptable.
Do you think Jesus would engage in such intolerant
and uncivil behavior? He taught that we must be like Him (3 Nephi 27:27). As I
read the gospels, I see Christ as the ultimate example of tolerance and
civility. He even forgave those who crucified Him. As His disciples, we must emulate
Him. We can’t be the light on the hill, the salt of the earth, or the leaven
spoken of by Christ if our words and actions don’t shine a light into the
darkness and lift those around us. Catherine McAuley said, “It is not sufficient
that Jesus Christ be formed in us – he must be recognized in our conduct.” We must be tolerant and civil.
Saint Francis of Assisi said, “Preach the gospel at
all times and if necessary, use words.” When we use words whether spoken,
posted, blogged, or texted, we should remember
the great commandment to love one another. Dieter F. Uchtdorf said,
Because love is the great commandment, it
ought to be at the center of all and everything we do... Love is the healing
balm that repairs rifts in personal and family relationships. It is the bond
that unites families, communities, and nations. Love is the power that
initiates friendship, tolerance, civility, and respect. It is the source that
overcomes divisiveness and hate. Love is the fire that warms our lives with
unparalleled joy and divine hope. Love should be our walk and our talk. (Dieter
F. Uchtdorf, “Love of God,” Ensign, November 2009)
The Savior said in the Sermon on the Mount:
Ye have heard that it hath been said, Thou shalt love thy neighbour, and
hate thine enemy. But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse
you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use
you, and persecute you; That ye may be the children of your Father which is in
heaven: for he maketh his sun to rise on the evil and on the good, and sendeth
rain on the just and on the unjust. (Matthew 5:43-45)
Civility and respect flow from the love we have for
others. Regardless of what they may have said, espoused, or done the Savior
said we should bless, do good to, and pray for them. He didn’t say we needed to
agree with them or their ideas but we do need to be tolerant, civil, and
respectful. Quentin L. Cook said,
We need to be civil in
our discourse and respectful in our interactions. We live in a world where
there is much turmoil. Many people are both angry and afraid. The Savior taught
us to love even our enemies (see Matthew 5:44). This is especially true when we
disagree. The moral basis of civility is the Golden Rule. It is taught in most
religions and particularly by the Savior. “And as ye would that men should do
to you, do ye also to them likewise” (Luke 6:31). Our faith requires that we treat
our neighbors with respect.
In a… [recent] address
I pointed out that “there are some who feel that venting their personal anger
or deeply held opinions is more important than conducting themselves as Jesus
Christ lived and taught. … How we disagree is a real measure of who we are and
whether we truly follow the Savior. It is appropriate to disagree, but it is
not appropriate to be disagreeable. … If we show love and respect even in
adverse circumstances, we become more like Christ. (Quentin L. Cook, “Restoring
Morality and Religious Freedom”, Ensign, September 2012)
Dallin H. Oakes speaking of tolerance said:
Living together with
mutual respect for one another’s differences is a challenge in today’s world.
However . . . this living with differences is what the gospel of Jesus Christ
teaches us we must do.
The kingdom of God is
like leaven, Jesus taught (see Matthew 13:33). Leaven—yeast—is hidden away in
the larger mass until the whole is leavened, which means raised by its
influence. Our Savior also taught that His followers will have tribulation in
the world (see John 16:33), that their numbers and dominions will be small (see
1 Nephi 14:12), and that they will be hated because they are not of the
world (see John 17:14). But that is our role. We are called to live with other
children of God who do not share our faith or our values…We are to be in the
world but not of the world. Because followers of Jesus Christ are commanded to
be leaven, we must seek tolerance from those who hate us for not being of the
world. . .
We must also practice
tolerance and respect toward others. As the Apostle Paul taught, Christians
should “follow after the things which make for peace” (Romans 14:19) and, as
much as possible, “live peaceably with all men” (Romans 12:18). Consequently,
we should be alert to honor the good we should see in all people and in many
opinions and practices that differ from our own. As the Book of Mormon teaches:
'All things which are
good cometh of God; …
'… wherefore,
every thing which inviteth and enticeth to do good, and to love God, and to
serve him, is inspired of God.
'Wherefore, take heed …
that ye do not judge … that which is good and of God to be of the devil'
(Moroni 7:12–14).
That approach to differences
will yield tolerance. . ." (Dallin H. Oakes, “Truth and Tolerance,” Ensign, February 2012)
Tolerance, civility, and respect may seem like a
steep mountain to climb. However, every hike begins with one small step. May we
take that step today. Begin right here, right now.
Monday, March 4, 2013
Integrity
On December 6, 2011, Tad R. Callister gave a
devotional address at Brigham Young University entitled “Integrity: Foundation
of a Christlike Life.” He presented seven principles that are crucial in
establishing integrity as a fundamental part of our discipleship. This post is
an excerpt from his stellar address.
Robert Bolt’s classic
play A Man for All Seasons is the story of Sir Thomas More. He had
distinguished himself as a scholar, lawyer, ambassador, and, finally, as Lord
Chancellor of England. He was a man of absolute integrity. The play opens with
these words of Sir Richard Rich: “Every man has his price! … In money too. … Or
pleasure. Titles, women, bricks-and-mortar, there’s always something.”
That is the theme of
the play. It is also the theme of life. Is there a man or woman in this world
who cannot be bought, whose integrity is beyond price?
As the play unfolds,
King Henry VIII desires to divorce Queen Catherine and marry Anne Boleyn. But
there is a catch: divorce is forbidden by the Catholic Church. And so King
Henry VIII, not to be thwarted in his desires, demands of his subjects the
taking of an oath that will support him in his divorce. But there is a further
problem.
Sir Thomas More, who is
loved and admired by the common people, is a holdout—his conscience will not
let him sign the oath. He is unwilling to submit, even at the king’s personal
request. Then come the tests. His friends apply their personal charm and
pressure, but he will not yield. He is stripped of his wealth, his position,
and his family, but he will not sign. Finally, he is falsely tried for his
life, but still he will not succumb.
They have taken from
him his money, his political power, his friends, and his family—and will yet
take his life—but they cannot take from him his integrity. It is not for sale
at any price.
At the climax of the
play, Sir Thomas More is falsely tried for treason. Sir Richard Rich commits
the perjury necessary to convict him. As Sir Richard exits the courtroom, Sir
Thomas More asks him, “That’s a chain of office you are wearing. … What [is
it]?”
Prosecutor Thomas
Cromwell replies, “Sir Richard is appointed Attorney-General for Wales.”
More then looks into
Rich’s face with great disdain and retorts, “For Wales? Why, Richard, it
profits a man nothing to give his soul for the whole world. … But for Wales!”
In the life to come, no
doubt many will look back amidst uncontrollable sobs and repeat again and
again, “Why did I trade my soul for Wales or temporary physical pleasure or
fame or a grade or the approval of my friends? Why did I sell my integrity for
a price?”
Principles
of Integrity
I would like to address
seven principles of integrity that I hope will inspire us to make this
Christlike attribute a fundamental character trait in our personal lives.
1. Integrity is the
foundation of our character and all other virtues…Integrity is the
foundation upon which character and a Christlike life are built. If there are
cracks in that foundation, then it will not support the weight of other
Christlike attributes that must be built upon it. How can we be humble if we
lack the integrity to acknowledge our own weaknesses? How can we develop
charity for others if we are not totally honest in our dealings with them? ...
At the root of every virtue is integrity...
We cannot continue to
fully acquire other Christlike virtues until we first make integrity the
granite foundation of our lives. In some cases this may require us to go
through the painful process of ripping out an existing foundation built upon
deceit and replacing it stone by stone with a foundation of integrity. But it
can be done.
2. Integrity is not
doing just that which is legal but that which is moral or Christlike...
Integrity is not just adherence to the legal code; it is also adherence to the
higher moral code. It is as U.S. president Abraham Lincoln suggested: living in
accord with “the better angels of our nature.”...
3. Integrity makes
decisions based on eternal implications...Integrity is not shortsighted—it
is not just a temporary change of behavior; it is a permanent change of nature…King Benjamin told us
how we might change our natures from a natural man to a spiritual man: “For the
natural man is an enemy to God, and has been from the fall of Adam, and will
be, forever and ever, unless he yields to the enticings of the Holy Spirit, and
putteth off the natural man and becometh a saint through the atonement of
Christ the Lord, and becometh as a child, submissive, meek, humble, patient,
full of love, willing to submit to all things which the Lord seeth fit to
inflict upon him, even as a child doth submit to his father” (Mosiah 3:19).
Changing our natures,
not just our behaviors, is facilitated by an eternal perspective that we are
the children of God, that we have His spark of divinity within us, and that
through the Atonement we can become like Him—the perfect model of integrity.
4. Integrity is
disclosing the whole truth and nothing but the truth...The Lord can live
with our weaknesses and mistakes, provided we demonstrate a desire and effort
to repent. That is what the Atonement is all about. But ... He can[not] easily
tolerate a deceitful heart or a lying tongue...
5. Integrity knows
no alibis or excuses. There is something ennobling about the man or woman
who admits his or her weaknesses and takes the blame square on without excuse
or alibi...
6. Integrity is
keeping our covenants and our commitments, even in times of inconvenience.
Integrity is the courage to do right regardless of the consequences and the
inconvenience...
One of the acid tests
of our integrity is whether we keep the commitments and promises we have made
or whether there are loopholes in our word.
7. Integrity is not
governed by the presence of others. It is internally, not externally,
driven...
In Shakespeare’s play
Hamlet, Polonius says to his son Laertes:
To thine own self be
true,
And it must follow, as
the night the day,
Thou canst not then be
false to any man.
What wonderful counsel!
We have a choice. We can either seize the moment and take control of our lives
or become mere puppets to our environment and our peers...
The man of integrity
who is true to self and to God will choose the right whether or not anyone is
looking because he is self-driven, not externally controlled...
May we all become men
and women of integrity—not because we have to but because we want to. (Tad R.
Callister, "Integrity: Foundation of a Christlike Life," Ensign,
February 2013)
You can find the full text of the talk at
speeches.byu.edu.
Sunday, February 24, 2013
Having Faith
The
way of the faithful disciple of Christ may not be easy. Jeffrey R. Holland
said:
“When we promise
to follow the Savior, to walk in His footsteps, and be His disciples, we are
promising to go where that divine path leads us. And the path of salvation has
always led one way or another through Gethsemane. So if the Savior faced such
injustices and discouragements, such persecutions, unrighteousness, and
suffering, we cannot expect that we are not going to face some of that if we
still intend to call ourselves His true disciples and faithful followers.”
(Jeffrey R. Holland, “Lessons from Liberty Jail,” Ensign, September 2009, 31).
These
Gethsemane like experiences will refine and strengthen us if we remain
faithful. Niel L. Andersen said, "Like the intense fire that transforms
iron into steel, as we remain faithful during the fiery trial of our faith, we
are spiritually refined and strengthened." (Neil L. Andersen, "Trail
of Your Faith," Ensign, November
2012).
In
the midst of our trials we need not live in fear. Faith can and should replace
our fear. Russell M. Nelson said:
“We live in a
time of turmoil. Earthquakes and tsunamis wreak devastation, governments
collapse, economic stresses are severe, the family is under attack, and divorce
rates are rising. We have great cause for concern. But we do not need to let
our fears displace our faith. We can combat those fears by strengthening our
faith” (Russell M. Nelson, “Face the Future with Faith,” Ensign, May 2011, 34).
We
should always remember that "...Our Heavenly Father is aware of our needs
and will help us as we call upon Him for assistance. I believe that no concern
of ours is too small or insignificant. The Lord is in the details of our
lives." (Thomas S. Monson, "Consider the Blessings," Ensign, November 2012).
Monday, February 18, 2013
Personal Revelation-- A Blessing of the Temple
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One
of the blessings that come with temple attendance is the gift of personal
revelation. The Lord said,
“And
inasmuch as my people build a house unto me in the name of the Lord, and do not
suffer any unclean thing to come into it, that it be not defiled, my glory
shall rest upon it; Yea, and my presence shall be there, for I will come into
it, and all the pure in heart that shall come into it shall see God” (Doctrine
and Covenants 97:15-16).
In
the temple, individuals with hearts that are open and minds that are clear, and
who are ready to listen can readily receive personal revelation. When the Lord
accepted the Kirtland Temple on April 3, 1836, He said, “For behold, I have accepted this house, and my name shall be here; and I will manifest myself to my people in mercy in this house” (Doctrine and
Covenants 110:7). This
manifestation most often comes in the form of personal revelation. Elder John
A. Widstoe:
It is a great promise
that to the temples God will come, and that in them man shall see God. What
does this promised communion mean? Does it mean that once in a while God may
come into the temples, and that once in a while the pure in heart may see God there;
or does it mean the larger thing, that the pure in heart who go into the
temples, may, there by the Spirit of God, always have a wonderfully rich
communion with God? I think that is what it means to me and to you and to most
of us. We have gone into these holy houses, with our minds freed from the
ordinary earthly cares, and have literally felt the presence of God. In this
way, the temples are always places where God manifests himself to man and
increases his intelligence. A Temple is a place of revelation. (Elder John A.
Widstoe, “Temple Worship,” October 12, 1920)
This
precious gift from our loving Heavenly Father will bless our lives and guide us
to Eternal Life. President Gordon B. Hinckley said,
“In this noisy,
bustling, competitive world, what a privilege it is to have a sacred house
where we may experience the sanctifying
influence of the Spirit of the Lord. The element of selfishness crowds in
upon us constantly. We need to overcome it, and there is no better way than to
go to the house of the Lord and there serve in a vicarious relationship in
behalf of those who are beyond the veil of death. What a remarkable thing this
is. In most cases, we do not know those for whom we work. We expect no thanks.
We have no assurance that they will accept that which we offer. But we go, and
in that process we attain to a state that comes of no other effort. We
literally become saviors on Mount Zion. What does this mean? Just as our
Redeemer gave His life as a vicarious sacrifice for all men, and in so doing became
our Savior, even so we, in a small measure, when we engage in proxy work in the
temple, become as saviors to those on the other side who have no means of
advancing unless something is done in their behalf by those on earth.” (Gordon
B. Hinckley, “Closing Remarks,” Ensign, November
2004).
Temple
service sanctifies us. As we become more saintly, then we are open to the influence
of the Holy Spirit and can more readily receive inspiration and revelation.
President
Ezra Taft Benson promised, “That, with increased attendance in the temples of
our God, you shall receive increased personal revelation to bless your lives as
you bless those who have died” (Ensign, May 1987, p. 85). It is true that we
may receive inspiration and revelation without entering the temple, but
President Benson’s promise is that we will receive more revelation as we enter
and serve in the House of the Lord. As we give unselfish service, there is a
corresponding increase in our ability to feel the Spirit and receive personal
revelation.
The
principle of receiving personal revelation as we serve was also taught by Elder
David B. Haight who said, “Come to the temples worthily and regularly. Not only
do you bless those who are deceased, but you may freely partake of the promised
personal revelation that may bless your life with power, knowledge, light,
beauty, and truth from on high, which will guide you and your posterity to
eternal life. What person would not want these blessings…?” (David B. Haight,
“Come to the House of the Lord,” Ensign, May
1992).
Elder
John A. Widstoe made this powerful promise about giving temple service:
“I believe
that the busy person on the farm, in the shop, in the office, or in the
household, who has worries and troubles, can solve his problems better and more
quickly in the house of the Lord than anywhere else. If he will leave his
problems behind and in the temple work for himself and for his dead, he will
confer a mighty blessing upon those who have gone before, and quite as large a
blessing will come to him, for at the most unexpected moments, in or out of the
temple will come to him, as a revelation, the solution of the problems that vex
his life. That is the gift that comes to those who enter the temple properly,
because it is a place where revelations may be expected.” (John A. Widstoe,
“Temple Worship,” October 12, 1920)
I
have experienced the blessing of revelation that comes from temple service. The
Spirit I have felt in the temple has lifted me to a higher plane. I have felt
my Heavenly Father’s love in the temple, which has strengthened me. In times of
need, I have been comforted and felt peace. I have received answers to
questions and found solutions to problems. His Spirit has taught me, given me
new insights, and expanded my understanding of truth.
I
love the temple. I am grateful to a loving Heavenly Father who has made these
sacred houses available for His children.
Tuesday, February 12, 2013
"I AM. . . ."
“Jesus…said unto her…whosoever drinketh of the water that I shall
give him shall never thirst; but the water that I shall give him shall be in
him a well of water springing up into everlasting life” (John 4:13-14)
At various times during His ministry, Jesus also said:
“I am the bread of life: he that cometh to me
shall never hunger; and he that believeth on me shall never thirst” (John 6: 3).
“I
am the living bread which came down from heaven: if any man eat of
this bread, he shall live forever: and the bread that I will give is my flesh , which I will give for the
life of the world” (John 6:51).
“I
am the light of the world: he that followeth me shall not walk in
darkness , but shall have the light of life” ( John 8:12).
“I
am the door: by me if any man enter in, he shall be saved” (John 10:9’)
“I am the
resurrection,
and the life: he that believeth in me, though he were dead, yet shall
he live: And whosoever liveth and believeth in me shall never die” (John
11:25-26).
“I
am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father,
but by me” (John 14:6).
“I am the true vine … ye are the branches:
He that abideth in me, and I in him, the same bringeth forth much fruit: for
without me ye can do nothing”
(John 15:1-5).
Christ is
everything. Following Him is the only way back to Heavenly Father. Along life’s
journey, we must abide or travel with Him. As we travel His path, He provides
the light to lead us and all the spiritual nourishment to sustain us. At the
end of this journey, He is the door we must go through to Eternal Life with our
Heavenly Father.
I am grateful for the Lord Jesus
Christ and His glorious Atonement.
Tuesday, February 5, 2013
Lord, I Would Follow Thee
The
words from the beautiful hymn “Lord, I Would Follow Thee” challenge me to
strive to be a more diligent disciple.
Savior, may I
learn to love thee,
Walk the path
that thou hast shown,
Pause to help
and lift another,
Finding strength
beyond my own.
Savior, may I
learn to love thee—
Who am I to
judge another
When I walk
imperfectly?
In the quiet
heart is hidden
Sorrow that the
eye can’t see.
Who am I to
judge another?
I would be my
brother’s keeper;
I would learn
the healer’s art.
To the wounded
and the weary
I would show a
gentle heart.
I would be my
brother’s keeper—
Savior, may I
love my brother
As I know thou
lovest me,
Find in thee my
strength, my beacon,
For thy servant
I would be.
Savior, may I
love my brother—
Lord, I would
follow thee.
(Susan
Evans McCloud, “Lord, I Would Follow Thee,” Hymns , 220.)
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